What exactly is ADHD? This is a common neuro-developmental problem in young children. Giving can identify this problem and identify the situation. Children with ADHD or hyperactivity often behave hyperactively. We discussed more this in a previous article. You may also think that your child is also a hyperactive child. If you have a problem, the best thing to do is to consult your pediatrician. Today we are going to talk about whether the mental state of hyperactive children is an obstacle to their education. If so, here are some suggestions on how to avoid it.
Problems in primary and secondary education
Researchers say that hyperactive children face some problems when completing their primary and secondary education. However, they say that this situation can be avoided if these children receive the help they need from the school and their parents.
If you have a hyperactive child, what should you do about him or her?
The main thing is that if you think your child is a hyperactive child, you should see a doctor and get advice about your child as soon as possible. If your child has already been diagnosed with hyperactivity, you need to take the medication properly and on time. Let him or her spend more time outdoors. Teach your child the importance of education and focus more on the homework that the child will receive from the school. You can also direct your child’s attention to sports that are improving
What is the best educational environment for a hyperactive child?
It is often best for such children to have an active curriculum at school and to create an active environment after they return home. You can increase their interest in education.
How can ADHD increase a child’s interest in education?
Most of the time, recognizing that your child is a hyperactive child may have caused you emotional distress. But now there is nothing else you can do. You must face this situation. It is your responsibility to educate your child as well as other normal children and to develop his or her personality
Here are some simple steps you can take to begin the process of preparation for mediation
Encourage reading books. Build systematic communication between you and your child. Understand what your child likes and dislikes. Try different learning methods. Choose the one that works best for your child. The most important thing is that you direct your child to a step-by-step education. Then he or she will find the joy of learning.
Does the child’s distancing from the book and the use of technological tools break the interaction between parents and children?
With the advancement of technology and the busy lifestyle of parents today, children have become accustomed to using tablets away from books. You may have given your child a tablet or a small computer. But did you think that teaching your child to use technology like this from an early age would break the bond between you and your child? Or that the bond is diminishing?
Causing communication problems
Researchers have found that tablet use can cause communication problems between parents and children. At the same time, children who use these technological tools tend to feel more isolated and independent. It has also been identified that problems have arisen due to the inability of parents to easily connect to such devices. When children and parents read together using a device such as a tablet, there may be some conflict between the parents trying to control it and the child trying to hold it to himself.
Development of positive thinking due to reading books
According to pediatricians, you have found that directing your child to read from an early age promotes better language development and positive thinking about social interactions. For most children, a tablet is a stand-alone device. They often refuse to share this device.
The most effective way to get used to reading
There is also a risk that young children will find things inappropriate on the Internet. But the ability and time for parents to focus on that are currently very limited. Therefore, according to experts, the most effective way to teach a child to read from an early age is to direct the child to use books. If you are giving your child a tablet/computer, you need to have a good understanding of the above. Experts say that if you want to have a successful child in every way, you need to read more books and get your child used to read books from an early age.
Do not punish children when they are out of control
Parental care is a skill that develops over a period of time. Not every parent gets good children who follow all their advice and word. But parents should stop punishing their children for misconduct because they cannot blame them unjustly. Today we are going to talk about some ways to prevent severe punishment from your children and to be a good parent.
Do not compare them Avoid comparing your children with other children as this can have a negative impact. Instead, try to focus on the positive qualities of your child. Teach and help your children as disciplined children are more successful in life. But do not take their lives for granted. Also, avoid feeling that you are a neglected or unwanted child. Do not control your child unnecessarily and do not neglect him completely, as this can make him feel bad and hurt him.
Always support your children, especially when other children are involved. If your kids are wrong, it’s a different story. But do not condemn your children in public. It always makes children uncomfortable. So do not fight with the child in public. Give your children maximum support at every stage of life. Because they know your value. Help your child when he or she needs your help. Mentally strong parents do not worry unnecessarily about their children because they behave positively with all kinds of feelings and behaviors of their children.
Avoid exacerbating the situation When there is a fight between you and your child, avoid escalating the situation. Anger and harsh words are not good. Sometimes, you can say or do something that angers the child for a long time or makes the child angry. Be a parent who is not afraid to talk to your children or share something with you.
Teach your child the futility of anger, smoking, alcohol, etc. How do you teach your children if they do not teach and have a friendly conversation with them? Make it clear to you and your child about the rules of the home, especially during adolescence. At this point, children have a strong urge to disobey, so you go to their mental level and help them understand things. Whenever your children make mistakes, help them by correcting them. Stand up for them when you need to.
Be a ‘Cool’ parent the children of today’s generation love that word. ‘Cool’! They use the word whenever they see something wonderful or admirable. Trying to be a ‘cool’ parent brings you closer to them. Rejoice when they bring their friends home and when they ask for your advice. There is nothing more wonderful for children than seeing their parents try their best to adapt to the changing times. Keep them close to you. Give them the freedom and independence of life. Allow children to learn the importance of friendships and relationships and the greatness of parental love.
Give them a second chance
Sometimes parents’ arrogance or pride breaks trust and strains relationships. As a result, many family members are hostile. But there is no greater feeling than ‘love’. You only get life once. Therefore, make sure everything is in order. You or your children will not be together forever. Someday you too will grow old and they will get married and leave. Therefore, be loving and kind to your children whenever possible. Life is short, so do not feel resentment or regret with your children.