Here’s how to put one together for use with your children

Here's how to put one together for use with your children

In many families, siblings are at odds with each other. There are many reasons for this. But as the children get older, things get better. Establish a clear set of family rules before one of your children starts crying or harassing your own another child. The consensus to build like that is important to stop any fight

What is brotherly animosity?

The enmity between brothers and sisters is a tension between them. For example, you may see it between your older child and the newborn, or between a small child and an older child. The enmity between children is often a struggle for something they both want. But they can also start to get kids your attention. Children compete to get your attention by telling jokes, arguing, or telling you about something bad that someone else has done. They like to complain to you when they see a situation as unfair. While it may embarrass you, you can also find important ways for children to learn how to be fair and avoid problems through sibling rivalries. Sibling rivalries often escalate between the ages of 2 and 4, as children better understand their surroundings and siblings. As children get older, these animosities may increase.

Age and fighting

How children fight depends on their age and stage of development. Children under the age of 2 tend to fight for objects such as toys and make conflicts based on whose turn it is. In this case, children are more likely to do something like push or push the other because they cannot argue well with other children. Conflicts between siblings are common. But if the fight goes beyond control, it can become a problem.

Why do children fight?

Sometimes children see things from different angles. For example, Young children, in particular, have severe and severe reactions to things. Brothers and sisters can have arguments about their parents’ time and attention. Young people, in particular, tend to struggle because they do not have the language and communication skills to solve problems. If you have a newborn, it can be embarrassing for your older child. Young children do not understand why they feel jealous or how to deal with their feelings for their new brother or sister. They can often retreat from toilet training and bottle-feeding. Or they may try to jump on you while you are breastfeeding. This can sometimes be disruptive. This also begins to affect family peace. Arguments can disrupt the day-to-day running of the family and children can begin to hurt each other physically

Advice on managing rivalries

Provide an exampleHere's how to put one together for use with your children

Be the first role model to teach children healthy relationships and social skills. Talk to your children about controlling angry emotions. Seeing that you are solving problems in a positive way helps your children to develop a good relationship with their siblings.

Think about each child separately It is important to think about what every child needs. Children need to feel that you love them both equally. But that does not mean they should always be treated the same. Depending on the age and personality of the children, different rules may need to be set. They need to learn to share. But it is also important for them to know that there are some things that are unique to them.

Establish family rules

It is important to have clear family rules in your family that will make your life easier as a parent. The best rules are simple. Children need to know what is right and what is wrong. This will help you to remind your children of those rules and regulations.

Try to keep the rules in a positive way

Show them what they should do rather than what they should not do. For example, when your children do something good, tell them about it. Let them know you saw it. You can set a good example in how to communicate with others and resolve problems without shouting or scolding. Keep your children calm.

Avoid fighting before you cry

It is important to stop any fight before you start crying. Tell the older children that you talk to them later when everyone is quiet. Treat every child fairly. Do not compare children in a negative way. For example, do not blame one child for being a bully. Find out the reasons behind the fight and come up with an action plan. Use family rules. Assign your children some assignments that will make them feel connected to the family. Giving your children special time with each other can make the older child feel special about the younger one. You can ask them for advice on what their baby brother needs to wear. If your baby says no, don’t force the baby if it doesn’t matter.

When to Get Help

It is a good idea to seek help if things get too aggressive, frequent, and harmful. If you are being bullied, harassed, or physically harmed, you need to stop fighting immediately. If you are discouraged by child conflict, it is important to seek help. Start by talking to family and friends. Talk to maternity or pediatric nurse or talk to your doctor.

Do not punish children when they are out of control

Parental care is a skill that develops over a period of time. Not every parent gets good children who follow all their advice and word. But parents should stop punishing their children for misbehavior because they cannot blame them unjustly. Today we are going to talk about some ways to prevent children from being severely punished by you and to be a good parents.

Do not compare them

Avoid comparing your children with other children as this can have a negative impact. Instead, try to focus on your child’s positive qualities. Teach and help your children as disciplined children are more successful in life. But do not take their lives for granted. Also, avoid feeling that you are a neglected or unwanted child. Do not control your child unnecessarily and do not neglect him completely, it can make him feel wrong and hurt him.

Support them

Always support your children, especially when other children are involved. If your kids are wrong, it’s a different story. But do not condemn your children in public. It always makes children uncomfortable. So do not fight with the child in public. Give your children maximum support at every stage of life. Because they know your value. Help your child when he or she needs your help. Mentally strong parents do not worry unnecessarily about their children because they treat their children positively with all kinds of emotions and behaviors.

Avoid exacerbating the situation When there is a fight between you and your child, avoid escalating the situation. Anger and harsh words are not good. Sometimes, you can say or do something that angers the child for a long time or makes the child angry. Be a parent who is not afraid to talk to your children or share something with you.

Teach them

Teach your child the futility of anger, smoking, alcohol, etc. If you do not teach your children how to communicate with them, how will they learn? Make it clear to you and your child about the rules of the home, especially during adolescence. At this point, children have a strong urge to disobey, so you go to their mental level and help them understand things. Whenever your children make mistakes, help them by correcting them. Stand up for them when you need to.

Be a ‘Cool’ parent

The children of today’s generation love that word. ‘Cool’! They use the word whenever they see something wonderful or admirable. Trying to be a ‘cool’ parent brings you closer to them. Rejoice when they bring their friends home and when they ask for your advice. There is nothing more wonderful for children than seeing their parents try their best to adapt to the changing times. Keep them close to you. Give them the freedom and independence of life. Allow children to learn the importance of friendships and relationships and the greatness of parental love.

Give them a second chance

Sometimes parents’ arrogance or pride breaks trust and strains relationships. As a result, many family members are hostile. But there is no greater feeling than ‘love’. You only get life once. So make sure everything is in order. You or your children will not be together forever. Someday you too will grow old and they will get married and leave. Therefore, be loving and kind to your children whenever possible. Life is short, so do not feel resentment or regret with your children.

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